Common coincidences occur in your life…
…which makes you question whether you’re imagining things or if others just can’t see what you see
When visiting places such as restaurants you always know exactly where the exit is…
…which creates subtle, constant hyper-awareness and over time, that becomes emotional exhaustion and difficulty relaxing
You’ve always been highly perceptive: you can see that the outside of a person doesn’t always match the inside. It’s obvious to you…
…which leads to you questioning your own reality when no one else seems to notice and feeling emotionally lonely or misunderstood
You have a large stack of books by the side of your bed that never seems to go down. For important books you’ll always have a hard copy; Kindle is for light reading…
…yet all that knowledge often leaves you paralysed when you still don’t feel clear. You know so much, but still feel stuck
You find it difficult to compromise yourself – you like the truth of a situation…
…which puts you in tough spots in relationships or work environments because you either suppress your voice or risk burning bridges
You’re acutely sensitive to the moods of others…
…which means you’re often absorbing emotions that aren’t yours, leading to emotional overwhelm and chronic tiredness
You know when someone is emotionally upset, even if their outer appearance is happy…
…which creates invisible tension; you sense the truth behind the mask, but can’t say anything without seeming dramatic or “too much”
People want to tell you their life history and things they have rarely told others, even if they do not know you very well…
…which creates unseen emotional labour, codependent dynamics and leaves you with little energy for your own needs
‘Knowing’ people well when you have only met them for a short time…
… and because of that, you find it hard to trust others fully, even when they seem safe on the surface
You’re not very good at small talk – you prefer deep conversation…
… but most conversations stay shallow, leaving you feeling alien, bored or like you have to “perform” to belong