Why Do I Always Give More in Relationships?

Why Do I Always Give More in Relationships?

Have you ever felt like you give more than you receive in relationships? Do you often find yourself feeling unloved or struggling with communication issues? The real issue may be deeper than you think—it's something called infantile relatedness.

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In this episode, we explore the concept of infantile relatedness (coined by Eric Fromm) and how it shapes your relationships. Using a powerful map and a step-by-step process, I’ll guide you through understanding the patterns in your most recent relationships and reveal what your soul is here to learn.

In this video, you'll discover:

  • Why some relationships start strong but quickly fizzle out.
  • How infantile relatedness locks your partner in a developmental stage.
  • A meditation to help you recognise and shift these patterns.

This episode is for you if you’re ready to stop feeling unappreciated and start building healthier, balanced relationships. Use my Life Codes calculator at www.HeidiSawyer.com/lifecodes to find out your Life Code number and plot your relationships on the Tree of Life for deeper insights.

Part 2:
Accompanying Meditation

Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.

Complete The Meditation Now
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Accompanying Episode

Have you ever felt like you give more than you receive in relationships? Do you often find yourself feeling unloved or struggling with communication issues? The real issue may be deeper than you think—it's something called infantile relatedness.

Watch The Episode Now
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Orphan Archetype Workshop

When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.

The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.

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Lover Archetype Workshop

When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.

The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.

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King Archetype Workshop

When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.

The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .

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Are you ready to go deeper?

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Queen Archetype Workshop

You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?

This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.

Heidi Sawyer is an intuition expert whose online courses, mentorship programmes and events have helped 74,498 Intuitive-Sensitive People understand their sensitivity as their greatest asset. Heidi’s business has helped more than 5,000 Intuitive-Sensitives recover from emotional-trauma, understand their intuition as their very own super-power for managing difficult people, career enhancement and better relationships. Watch Philosopher's Journey webinar replay here.

Heidi’s book, Highly Intuitive People has been a consistent best-seller since 2015 providing Intuitive-Sensitive People with the map of their life path. Heidi’s business exists because she understands the loneliness of opening to your deep world, and strove to provide the service she wanted to receive. To learn more about Heidi Sawyer click here.
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Why Do I Always Give More in Relationships?

Have you ever felt like you give more than you receive in relationships? Do you often find yourself feeling unloved or struggling with communication issues? The real issue may be deeper than you think—it's something called infantile relatedness.

Get The Full Experience:

Audio Only Version of the Video Above:

In this episode, we explore the concept of infantile relatedness (coined by Eric Fromm) and how it shapes your relationships. Using a powerful map and a step-by-step process, I’ll guide you through understanding the patterns in your most recent relationships and reveal what your soul is here to learn.

In this video, you'll discover:

  • Why some relationships start strong but quickly fizzle out.
  • How infantile relatedness locks your partner in a developmental stage.
  • A meditation to help you recognise and shift these patterns.

This episode is for you if you’re ready to stop feeling unappreciated and start building healthier, balanced relationships. Use my Life Codes calculator at www.HeidiSawyer.com/lifecodes to find out your Life Code number and plot your relationships on the Tree of Life for deeper insights.

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Part 2:
Accompanying Meditation

Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.

Complete The Meditation Now
Part 2:
Accompanying Episode

Have you ever felt like you give more than you receive in relationships? Do you often find yourself feeling unloved or struggling with communication issues? The real issue may be deeper than you think—it's something called infantile relatedness.

Watch The Episode Now
Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Orphan Archetype Workshop

When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.

The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.

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Untangling Love’s Web: From Control to Connection

In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:

  • How to heal your "Projective Love Story" (idealised relationship fantasy) and stop control, dominance, and projection from ruling your relationships
  • Why spotting the "dominator" (control-driven behaviour) in yourself and others is key to breaking free from controlling dynamics
  • Simple ways to remove the dominator within and create healthy, respectful relationships based on mutual trust and understanding
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Breaking the Hero Fantasy: Empowering Your Inner Self

In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:

  • How to heal from neurotic love and the rescuing patterns that stop you from achieving true connection
  • Why understanding infantile relatedness is the key to breaking free from unfulfilling relationships
  • How your subconscious beliefs have kept you stuck in rescuing dynamics—and what to do about it
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Navigating the Emotional Abyss: Finding Stability Within

In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:

  • How to find stability and calm in the "Emotional Abyss" (feeling overwhelmed by emotions) by creating a strong emotional foundation
  • Why it’s important to reconnect with your inner self to stop emotional chaos from controlling your life
  • Simple, practical steps to build emotional resilience and regain control, so you can create healthy, lasting relationships

Even if you’ve been feeling lost or overwhelmed by your emotions, this workshop will guide you to a place of emotional stability and strength.

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Magician Archetype Workshop

When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.

The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Lover Archetype Workshop

When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.

The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

King Archetype Workshop

When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.

The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Queen Archetype Workshop

You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?

This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.

About Heidi Sawyer

Are you searching for a deeper understanding of your emotional patterns? Do you find yourself facing the same challenges in your relationships? The Love & Life Codes Series offers practical insights infused with ancient spiritual wisdom to help you navigate life’s complexities.

In each episode, Heidi Sawyer delves into common emotional and relationship struggles, using the Tree of Life as a powerful tool to uncover the deeper spiritual truths behind these issues. Whether you’re seeking to understand why certain patterns repeat or how to break free from them, Heidi guides you to work from the inside out, encouraging a shift in perspective that leads to profound, lasting change.

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