Elizabeth Taylor was one of the most iconic women in Hollywood history.
She won two Academy Awards. She was married eight times. Her face graced every magazine cover, her voice commanded attention, her presence was unforgettable.
But behind the glamour and diamonds, there was something else.
She once said,
“I don’t pretend to be an ordinary housewife.”
And she wasn’t.
She wasn’t pretending at all.
She was searching, not for attention, but for a love that mirrored her depth.
And every time a relationship ended, she would begin again.
To the world, this looked like drama.
But to her, it was devotion: a relentless quest to feel truly chosen.
This is the path of the Lover Archetype, the part of you that longs to be chosen, not for what you do, but for who you are at your core.
After multiple heartbreaks, media scandals and public betrayal, something shifted.
She stopped trying to fit the mould of the "perfect woman."
She stopped choosing relationships that dulled her shine.
She even walked away from Hollywood at the height of her fame because she knew fame wasn’t the thing she was truly craving.
What was she really longing for?
Devotion. Not from others, but from herself.
She began giving her time, energy and presence to causes she cared deeply about. She stood boldly for AIDS activism, long before it was safe to do so.
She became magnetic not because she was flawless, but because she was finally whole.
This is the lesson of the Lover Archetype:
You don’t need to be perfect to be chosen.
You need to be real.
The Lover archetype is the part of you that wants to be adored, chosen, and seen for your essence, not your achievements.
But here’s the tension:
The Lover’s journey is about shifting
From… “If I control it, I won’t get hurt,”
To… “If I allow it, I might finally be met.”
When healed, the Lover doesn’t search for love.
She becomes love (and attracts it effortlessly).
Before we go any further, take a moment to reflect:
Your answers reveal where your Lover Archetype is ready to awaken.
Now, it’s time to take the next step.
Press play on this week’s meditation and experience the shift for yourself
Your Lover Archetype knows you were never meant to chase affection or prove your worth.
Right now, you may feel like love and connection require performance or perfection, but deep inside, your soul knows the truth:
But…
When you choose yourself, everything changes
Press play and step into your guided journey. This meditation will help you reconnect with your deep longing and begin choosing yourself in a way you never have before.
If it is safe to do so, close your eyes and.
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
Elizabeth Taylor was one of the most iconic women in Hollywood history.
She won two Academy Awards. She was married eight times. Her face graced every magazine cover, her voice commanded attention, her presence was unforgettable.
But behind the glamour and diamonds, there was something else.
She once said,
“I don’t pretend to be an ordinary housewife.”
And she wasn’t.
She wasn’t pretending at all.
She was searching, not for attention, but for a love that mirrored her depth.
And every time a relationship ended, she would begin again.
To the world, this looked like drama.
But to her, it was devotion: a relentless quest to feel truly chosen.
This is the path of the Lover Archetype, the part of you that longs to be chosen, not for what you do, but for who you are at your core.
After multiple heartbreaks, media scandals and public betrayal, something shifted.
She stopped trying to fit the mould of the "perfect woman."
She stopped choosing relationships that dulled her shine.
She even walked away from Hollywood at the height of her fame because she knew fame wasn’t the thing she was truly craving.
What was she really longing for?
Devotion. Not from others, but from herself.
She began giving her time, energy and presence to causes she cared deeply about. She stood boldly for AIDS activism, long before it was safe to do so.
She became magnetic not because she was flawless, but because she was finally whole.
This is the lesson of the Lover Archetype:
You don’t need to be perfect to be chosen.
You need to be real.
The Lover archetype is the part of you that wants to be adored, chosen, and seen for your essence, not your achievements.
But here’s the tension:
The Lover’s journey is about shifting
From… “If I control it, I won’t get hurt,”
To… “If I allow it, I might finally be met.”
When healed, the Lover doesn’t search for love.
She becomes love (and attracts it effortlessly).
Before we go any further, take a moment to reflect:
Your answers reveal where your Lover Archetype is ready to awaken.
Now, it’s time to take the next step.
Press play on this week’s meditation and experience the shift for yourself
Your Lover Archetype knows you were never meant to chase affection or prove your worth.
Right now, you may feel like love and connection require performance or perfection, but deep inside, your soul knows the truth:
But…
When you choose yourself, everything changes
Press play and step into your guided journey. This meditation will help you reconnect with your deep longing and begin choosing yourself in a way you never have before.
If it is safe to do so, close your eyes and.
Elizabeth Taylor showed us real power begins when you choose yourself first.
Healing the Lover Archetype isn’t about getting others to choose you, it’s about devoting yourself to the parts of you that have been waiting to be chosen by you.
Now, I’d love to hear from you:
👉 What did you experience during the meditation?
Come share your experience with me here:
>>Click here to discuss this episode with me in the Private Facebook Group
Elizabeth Taylor showed us real power begins when you choose yourself first.
Healing the Lover Archetype isn’t about getting others to choose you, it’s about devoting yourself to the parts of you that have been waiting to be chosen by you.
Now, I’d love to hear from you:
👉 What did you experience during the meditation?
Come share your experience with me here:
>>Click here to discuss this episode with me in the Private Facebook Group
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
Here's how:
The first one is arguably the most important
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When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.
The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
Drawing from nearly three decades of experience, Heidi Sawyer has guided over 75,000 Intuitive-Sensitive individuals across 121 countries to access their inner wisdom. As the creator of the Unconscious Resonance Method, she brings profound understanding to the unique needs of soul seekers through her bestselling book "Highly Intuitive People" (Hay House), transformative online courses, and personal consultations. Her insights have reached millions through her YouTube channel, podcast, and international media appearances, establishing her as a trusted voice in intuitive development and personal transformation.