For years, Brené Brown believed that the best way to help people was to teach them what she knew.
As a research professor, she built her career on data, analysis, and expertise. She believed that if people just had the right information, they would change.
But when her research on vulnerability went viral, she had an uncomfortable realization:
🔹 People don’t change because they’re told to.
🔹 They change when they’re ready to ask.
The more she tried to convince people of the power of vulnerability, the more resistance she faced.
Then she made a profound shift:
She stopped trying to tell people what they weren’t ready to hear—and waited for them to come to her instead.
Suddenly, everything changed.
Her TED Talk became one of the most-watched in history.
Her books became bestsellers.
Her work was embraced by leaders, CEOs, and top athletes worldwide.
Her wisdom didn’t change. Her timing did.
This is the power of the Fairy Godmother archetype—the part of you that offers guidance only when asked, making your words truly land.
Before Brené’s success, she thought that being an expert meant always having answers.
But she started to see that forcing wisdom on people before they’re ready only makes them push back.
🔹 She stopped trying to prove vulnerability was important.
🔹 She stopped forcing insights onto those who weren’t open to them.
🔹 She let people come to her when they were ready—and when they did, her words had true impact.
This is the lesson of the Fairy Godmother archetype—wisdom given at the wrong time is wasted. Wisdom given at the right time is life-changing.
The Fairy Godmother archetype is the part of you that holds deep wisdom but knows when to share it.
It’s the voice that says: "Not everyone is ready for the truth—but when they are, I will be here."
But here’s the challenge: Most people either overshare or stay silent.
The Fairy Godmother’s journey is about learning the balance between knowing when to step forward and when to wait.
When healed, the Fairy Godmother doesn’t force wisdom on others. It waits for the right moment—so that when it speaks, its words are heard.
Before we go any further, take a moment to reflect:
Your answers reveal where your Fairy Godmother archetype is waiting to awaken.
Your Fairy Godmother archetype knows that timing is everything.
Right now, you may feel the urge to help, fix, or guide others—but deep inside, you know that the greatest wisdom comes when you wait for the right moment.
This is where your story shifts—where patience replaces pressure, and where your words finally land when they’re meant to.
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
For years, Brené Brown believed that the best way to help people was to teach them what she knew.
As a research professor, she built her career on data, analysis, and expertise. She believed that if people just had the right information, they would change.
But when her research on vulnerability went viral, she had an uncomfortable realization:
🔹 People don’t change because they’re told to.
🔹 They change when they’re ready to ask.
The more she tried to convince people of the power of vulnerability, the more resistance she faced.
Then she made a profound shift:
She stopped trying to tell people what they weren’t ready to hear—and waited for them to come to her instead.
Suddenly, everything changed.
Her TED Talk became one of the most-watched in history.
Her books became bestsellers.
Her work was embraced by leaders, CEOs, and top athletes worldwide.
Her wisdom didn’t change. Her timing did.
This is the power of the Fairy Godmother archetype—the part of you that offers guidance only when asked, making your words truly land.
Before Brené’s success, she thought that being an expert meant always having answers.
But she started to see that forcing wisdom on people before they’re ready only makes them push back.
🔹 She stopped trying to prove vulnerability was important.
🔹 She stopped forcing insights onto those who weren’t open to them.
🔹 She let people come to her when they were ready—and when they did, her words had true impact.
This is the lesson of the Fairy Godmother archetype—wisdom given at the wrong time is wasted. Wisdom given at the right time is life-changing.
The Fairy Godmother archetype is the part of you that holds deep wisdom but knows when to share it.
It’s the voice that says: "Not everyone is ready for the truth—but when they are, I will be here."
But here’s the challenge: Most people either overshare or stay silent.
The Fairy Godmother’s journey is about learning the balance between knowing when to step forward and when to wait.
When healed, the Fairy Godmother doesn’t force wisdom on others. It waits for the right moment—so that when it speaks, its words are heard.
Before we go any further, take a moment to reflect:
Your answers reveal where your Fairy Godmother archetype is waiting to awaken.
Your Fairy Godmother archetype knows that timing is everything.
Right now, you may feel the urge to help, fix, or guide others—but deep inside, you know that the greatest wisdom comes when you wait for the right moment.
This is where your story shifts—where patience replaces pressure, and where your words finally land when they’re meant to.
Healing the Fairy Godmother archetype isn’t about giving less—it’s about offering wisdom only when it’s truly needed.
Now, I’d love to hear from you:
👉 What did you experience during the meditation?
Come share your experience with me here:
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Healing the Fairy Godmother archetype isn’t about giving less—it’s about offering wisdom only when it’s truly needed.
Now, I’d love to hear from you:
👉 What did you experience during the meditation?
Come share your experience with me here:
>>Click here to discuss this episode with me in the Private Facebook Group
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
Here's how:
The first one is arguably the most important
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When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.
The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
Drawing from nearly three decades of experience, Heidi Sawyer has guided over 75,000 Intuitive-Sensitive individuals across 121 countries to access their inner wisdom. As the creator of the Unconscious Resonance Method, she brings profound understanding to the unique needs of soul seekers through her bestselling book "Highly Intuitive People" (Hay House), transformative online courses, and personal consultations. Her insights have reached millions through her YouTube channel, podcast, and international media appearances, establishing her as a trusted voice in intuitive development and personal transformation.