You think no one can make you feel special... Time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special, but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style
The problem is you think no one can make you feel special and time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style.
During this 30 minute session you will learn:
Please do your best to watch/listen to each part in order.
You think no one can make you feel special, and that time is running out to find someone who does makes you feel that way to appear in your life.
So you look for ways to distract yourself and you pretend it doesn’t matter.
The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special . . . but you can’t hear them because there’s a mis-match of communication style
In this episode we are resolving
You’ll discover
There are two different psychological viewpoints of how people operate in relationships
Volcanic or Organic
Volcanic assumes people are a molten lava of uncontrolled unconscious impulses, ready to explode.
Organic assumes people are programmed to systematically move towards wholeness.
In the same wat aa seed somehow ‘knows’ it must to grow into a tree, humans have a sense of unconscious purpose they are driven to follow.
A Love Panic is triggered when you’re faced with the dilemma: is this relationship a volcano or a tree?
It’s pretty certain you’re more of a ‘tree’ consciousness, but you’ve been around A LOT of volcanoes. Conflict arises when you hope against hope that someone has a ‘tree’ consciousness, when really they’re a volcano.
You HOPE enough love will turn them into a tree but what’s REAL is they need to be understood as a volcano.
The key is to realise everyone has their process.
Volcanoes don’t become tree people unless they own their emotions.
Most conversations between people are an exchange of fact. Love can only happen when conversations become emotions .
What I found I got sucked into for a long time was ignoring the fact that people are terrified of their emotions.
You end up judging yourself for your feelings when they stick to facts.
It doesn’t work because love requires feeling.
It will take a few goes, but you will feel you can
Remember it’s not about perfect: it's about PROGRESS.
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
You think no one can make you feel special... Time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special, but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
You think no one can make you feel special... Time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special, but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style
The problem is you think no one can make you feel special and time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style.
During this 30 minute session you will learn:
Please do your best to watch/listen to each part in order.
You think no one can make you feel special, and that time is running out to find someone who does makes you feel that way to appear in your life.
So you look for ways to distract yourself and you pretend it doesn’t matter.
The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special . . . but you can’t hear them because there’s a mis-match of communication style
In this episode we are resolving
You’ll discover
There are two different psychological viewpoints of how people operate in relationships
Volcanic or Organic
Volcanic assumes people are a molten lava of uncontrolled unconscious impulses, ready to explode.
Organic assumes people are programmed to systematically move towards wholeness.
In the same wat aa seed somehow ‘knows’ it must to grow into a tree, humans have a sense of unconscious purpose they are driven to follow.
A Love Panic is triggered when you’re faced with the dilemma: is this relationship a volcano or a tree?
It’s pretty certain you’re more of a ‘tree’ consciousness, but you’ve been around A LOT of volcanoes. Conflict arises when you hope against hope that someone has a ‘tree’ consciousness, when really they’re a volcano.
You HOPE enough love will turn them into a tree but what’s REAL is they need to be understood as a volcano.
The key is to realise everyone has their process.
Volcanoes don’t become tree people unless they own their emotions.
Most conversations between people are an exchange of fact. Love can only happen when conversations become emotions .
What I found I got sucked into for a long time was ignoring the fact that people are terrified of their emotions.
You end up judging yourself for your feelings when they stick to facts.
It doesn’t work because love requires feeling.
It will take a few goes, but you will feel you can
Remember it’s not about perfect: it's about PROGRESS.
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
You think no one can make you feel special... Time is running out for someone who makes you feel special, to appear in your life. So you look to distract yourself and pretend it doesn’t matter. The real issue is someone else CAN make you feel special, but you can’t hear it because there’s a mis-match of communication style
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
Even if you’ve been feeling lost or overwhelmed by your emotions, this workshop will guide you to a place of emotional stability and strength.
When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.
The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
If you are frustrated because you keep attracting difficult people into your life, the Love YOUR Life show will help. Fans of the show are ecstatic about the fun and entertaining way Heidi Sawyer brings you practical advice to help you recognise unhealthy dynamics and get your life back on track after being affected by controlling relationship(s).