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What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts? So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts?
So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
You end up wondering what exactly happened? (And why you’re not paid enough!)
The issue isn’t that you’re invisible. The issue is you have unconscious crisis values making your decisions.
In this episode we are looking at How to Discover Your Values Beyond a Crisis.
You’ll discover…
Please do your best to listen to each episode in order as they are released weekly.
First of all, let’s look at what your crisis values are?
Your crisis values are set by your nervous system.
As an Intuitive-Sensitive your nervous system is already very awake. This means your sympathetic nervous system is always set for action. It doesn’t have to be ramped up or inspired: it’s constantly ready to freeze, to take flight, or to fight.
And because your system is permanently in a state of heightened awareness, a crisis comes almost as a relief. It gives you somewhere to place all that pent-up energy.
Which is why you’re often the calmest person there when a crisis hits.
The issue is that because your system is always fired up, even when nothing needs taking care of, you build up a fatigue cycle. And as that suggests - it’s exhausting.
The path away from crisis is to realise that you still have value, even when you’re not solving a major problem.
You don’t always have to be taking care of someone else’s needs in order to be of value. You are allowed to accept peace into your life.
The key is to accept you are allowed to receive values for yourself from other people. Values such as dependability, reliability, consistency and honesty.
What I found I got sucked into for a long time was believing that adhering to other people’s values was the only route allowed to me. I would be loyal, dependable, reliable, consistent and honest . . . And yet others didn’t seem to have to return these values towards me.
You end up with misplaced loyalty and accepting bad behaviour as normal. It doesn’t work, because you just constantly get caught up in other people’s drama.
It will take a few goes – but you will start to feel you can discover your values beyond a crisis.
Remember it’s not about perfect - it's about PROGRESS
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts? So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts? So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts?
So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
You end up wondering what exactly happened? (And why you’re not paid enough!)
The issue isn’t that you’re invisible. The issue is you have unconscious crisis values making your decisions.
In this episode we are looking at How to Discover Your Values Beyond a Crisis.
You’ll discover…
Please do your best to listen to each episode in order as they are released weekly.
First of all, let’s look at what your crisis values are?
Your crisis values are set by your nervous system.
As an Intuitive-Sensitive your nervous system is already very awake. This means your sympathetic nervous system is always set for action. It doesn’t have to be ramped up or inspired: it’s constantly ready to freeze, to take flight, or to fight.
And because your system is permanently in a state of heightened awareness, a crisis comes almost as a relief. It gives you somewhere to place all that pent-up energy.
Which is why you’re often the calmest person there when a crisis hits.
The issue is that because your system is always fired up, even when nothing needs taking care of, you build up a fatigue cycle. And as that suggests - it’s exhausting.
The path away from crisis is to realise that you still have value, even when you’re not solving a major problem.
You don’t always have to be taking care of someone else’s needs in order to be of value. You are allowed to accept peace into your life.
The key is to accept you are allowed to receive values for yourself from other people. Values such as dependability, reliability, consistency and honesty.
What I found I got sucked into for a long time was believing that adhering to other people’s values was the only route allowed to me. I would be loyal, dependable, reliable, consistent and honest . . . And yet others didn’t seem to have to return these values towards me.
You end up with misplaced loyalty and accepting bad behaviour as normal. It doesn’t work, because you just constantly get caught up in other people’s drama.
It will take a few goes – but you will start to feel you can discover your values beyond a crisis.
Remember it’s not about perfect - it's about PROGRESS
Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.
What if the problem is you’re great in a crisis, but are rarely thanked for your efforts? So you get to be the person who is relied upon, but then simply discarded.
When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.
The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
In this content-packed, free On-Demand Workshop, you will learn:
Even if you’ve been feeling lost or overwhelmed by your emotions, this workshop will guide you to a place of emotional stability and strength.
When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.
The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.
When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.
The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.
When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.
The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .
You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?
This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.
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